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Tricks for bound hands/arms

25th January, 2016

Tricks for bound hands/arms

25th January, 2016

standard rope bondage equipemnt

I’ve got some news and it’s not about your hair. You should be using zero-blade clippers anyway. No, it does not matter you’re a woman...V for Vendetta proved shaved is the new sexy. Am I right guys? ..Guys? Anyway... I have conjured myself in to these digital ones and zeros so I may glow through your moving picture device that fires ions of knowledge to your sockets. Today is about breaking an unconscious pattern of behavior. That’s impossible! I’m so perfect that I fart unicorn dust...I have nothing to learn here. First, see a doctor for that. Second, I was in the same boat and I soon realized that ship was actually the Titanic. I was doing so many things wrong as old habits die hard.

Don’t you dare interrupt me

It seemed so mickey mouse at first that I wasn’t even aware anything was awry. Then like a light-saber to the rectal region of my anus I was awakened and ready to listen. A local stranger danger was ready to point out some nuances that would have made my nose flare. Nothing like someone butting in on your scene telling you what to do….Go away you dicks! This guy was different. Not transgender different, just absolutely kind and humble. He picked up on that my hands were still virgin to shibari and that I was young and pig-headed. He watched with purpose and intent and let me finish before saying anything….That sentence right there is worth its weight in gold. I'll repeat. He let me finish before saying anything. More people should be like this man….Approaching, he congratulated me on my harness and thanked me for letting him watch. I was stricken by him. "Hell, I like you. You can come over to my house and fuck my sister.” He offered suggestions if I was open to them. I said "Sure." I had nothing to lose. Oh how I was in for a liquor-filled chocolate treat.

Even the worst can feel good

He began to speak and I braced myself expecting a gut punch from the likes of a non-lubed bam. Improper arm placement was first on his list. I was letting the arms fall downward creating an X and it was not to mark the pirate booty. Always keep them pulled up towards the upper back during a Takate-Kote. When the arms fall it creates pressure on the ulnar nerve which is dark wizardry potter. Now get ready for a round house kick to the face! "Pull ropes under the stem...Flowing over the stem creates more bulk as you add rope." Why didn’t I think of that? "Pfft. Stupid noobs." I could not believe I had to be told this. My worst offense was yet to come and it rivaled R.Kelly. I was cinching down ropes that were already tighter than spandex around a camel toe. Talk about pissing in your cheerios. When laying down wraps, let them flow a little loose. Not Jenna Jameson loose, just enough that you can still slip your fingers under the rope. Cinches should not be used to tighten the wraps, only to secure them. He appeared, dropped a ton of bricks in the form of rope knowledge on my brain and as quickly vanished. Hey old cool guy, if you ever read this…Thank you, and reach out to me…lets do dinner. I’ll introduce you to my sister.

It couldn’t have been Copperfied

One of the most iconic ties in Shibari and it was being bastardized by yours truly. Looking at old pictures of mine, it was homely enough to stop a clock. What was I thinking? Learning without due consideration or carful observation is only going to get someone hurt. Never be the old me. You don’t want to break your toys do you? At least not with rope. Leave that for paddles, whips, and “Ohhh Myyy" says George Takei. Including these changes really enhanced my Takate-Kote. Admitting to shortcomings is your first step towards addiction...of rope mastery.